I keep telling myself: at the end of the day, the most important thing is that we’re married. And we have our friends and family there, and there’s just not anything else we really need…

This should really be titled: "How to throw the Best Bachelorette Party there ever was and ever will be" but that might be a little too long of a title. That's what my friends did for me though.

Although I didn't actually spend Christmas day in Nashville — I went home to Los Angeles to be with my family and do other fun things — I did do a lot of fun and great things in the Nashville area leading up to it! And I thought I'd share if you're in the mood or starting to plan all those holiday festivities.

Here's the breakdown:

• Lipton Lights (my personal favorite)
• Chad's Winter Wonderland in Lebanon, TN
• Opryland Hotel Christmas — ICE, Christmas lights, a musical number at Grand Ole Opry
• Dancing Lights of Christmas at Jellystone Park

I'm hoping to continue to add more as the season progresses. So look out ;)